Riquita Denise Wagner, known by many as Kita, died May 11, 2023 at her home.
She was born on February 21, 1980 to her mother, Sylvia, and father, R.L. Carpenter, in North Little Rock, Arkansas and was raised by her mother and stepfather, Clayton Davis, as they moved around the world; experiencing a zest for life and cultural curiosity alongside her brother, Derek, and sister, Mikayla.
She graduated in Japan from Misawa Air Base's Edgren High School in 1998 before joining the Air Force a few years later. On May 22, 2002 she married the love of her life, Daniel Wagner. Her education culminated in 2021, as she graduated Summa Cum Laude with a Bachelor's degree in Business Administration.
As the oldest of the three she was the first to try new things, seek out adventures, and brave dangerous situations. She was never afraid to test the limits set before her. She was a rebel. But through those actions, she also became a compassionate caregiver. Not only did she help guide her younger siblings, but she also helped others throughout her life, and was a great lover of animals.
She was always there for others. Whether it was crafting soaps, or canning food, or showing love to friends and family going through difficult situations, you could count on her for support. She was a deep listener when you needed to talk through issues, an excellent brainstormer for when you couldn't solve a problem, and always had the best cat videos ready when you just needed a break from it all.
Her most impressive trait was her strength. She was an Air Force veteran and faced all the difficulties that being active-duty entails. After her service, she continued supporting her country as a military spouse while Daniel still wore the uniform. Through every deployment, PCS, and challenge, she earned the prestigious Molly Pitcher Award bestowed to those that voluntarily contributed significant improvements to her military community.
She is survived by her loving husband Daniel, her parents and siblings, and a host of loving friends and family. Her final resting place will be at the Sandhills State Veterans Cemetery. As an avid Hockey fan, in lieu of a service, donations can be made in her name to the Carolina Hurricanes Foundation.